Everyone knows that people in our society are drifting more and more apart, we are big individualists and have the feeling we cannot find a soulmate. Our lives seem to be pointless, empty. Even with many people around us, we sometimes feel alone. Why is that? I think it's the lack of the feeling of being connected. Connected to the world around us.
For us Christians the factor is also another dimension - maybe because for a glimpse of a second we realise how happy we were before we were born to this Earth- being one with our Father who is in heaven, feeling whole and connected with everyone and everything. Our soul is one with everything and God is all around us- we seem to forgett.
Especially the people that do not believe in anything beyond this life- might feel more lonely, and intimidated by the fact that they as everyone around them- are getting old and will die someday. It's hard to live, if you think you will not get reworded for your dids. But for us Christians it means - accomplishing our tasks here on Earth and returning to our Father and Mother and their endless love.
Eventhough if you don't believe in God- you should know, that all well comes around, as do all the bad things. But it is more important to feel connected. I think we can make it easier for ourselves if we live in a society that is very much connected- here is a privilage for people that live in suberbs, or villiages - or have a group of people that we feel we belong to. I try to be an active part of my society- I live in a suberb, go to church, organise and lead the activities for youth and children...
Eventhough- I sometimes feel lonely. I am in a happy relationship- eventhough- I sometimes feel lonely. If you are in a relationship just because you don't want to feel so alone all the time- you should start realising, that noone can make you happy if you don't start making yourself happy- starting with the small things. People that are lonely while single, will probably feel lonely in a relationship too, unless they do something about it. I have been there, and I was hanging on my partner, until I made the decesion to make myself happy- by doing small things that made me happy and set small goals. Now my life is much more full, my heart is rejoicing- and when I have moments of wickness- I try to do something good for myself- go running, go out to the sun, cook something healthy, go dancing, dress up nicely and go for a walk in the forrest... whatever makes your day- I trust you will have a great day today with a little spark of happiness from your devine soul!
And remember we are all the same and you are never alone! Reach out for someone that needs help and it will make you feel less alone- I guarantee! ;)
